Thinking about ditching the big wedding and saying “I do” your own way? You’re in the right place. Whether you’re dreaming of a quiet mountaintop moment or a barefoot ceremony on a sun-soaked beach in Hawaii, this blog will walk you through everything you need to know about how to elope with intention. From choosing the perfect location and deciding who to invite (if anyone!) to hiring the right vendors and planning a timeline that fits your vision, I’m breaking it all down. As a photographer who absolutely loves capturing elopements—especially a Hawaii elopement—I’m here to help make the planning process feel exciting, personal, and totally doable. Let’s get into the magic of planning a day that’s all about you two.

Hiring the Right Hawaii Elopement Vendors

Once you’ve decided to elope, one of the most important steps is hiring the right vendor team to help bring your vision to life. Even if your elopement is intentionally simple, having professionals you trust will make all the difference. Start with your photographer (hi, it’s me 👋🏼), because your photos will be the forever memory of your day. From there, think about whether you’d like a videographer to capture movement and sound, or if you want to keep it intimate and still.

A florist can create a bouquet or floral piece that brings your setting to life, and yes, you can absolutely still have a cake (or a mini one!) for your elopement. Don’t forget your officiant, and of course your attire, whether that’s a wedding dress, a sleek suit, or something a little more adventurous. When planning a Hawaii elopement, many couples love working with local vendors who know the island vibe and can help make the whole experience stress-free and seamless. More than anything, choose vendors who get your vibe and make you feel supported, because even small weddings deserve big love.

(Scroll to the bottom of this post for all the featured vendors in this blog!)

Choosing the Best Time of Day for Your Elopement

One of the biggest decisions you’ll make is what time of day to have your ceremony, and trust me, timing is everything. The light makes a huge difference. For most elopements, I recommend planning your ceremony during golden hour, either just after sunrise or just before sunset, when the lighting is soft, flattering, and super romantic. If you’re dreaming of a Hawaii elopement ceremony with glowing skies and golden warmth, sunset is a breathtaking choice. Morning ceremonies, on the other hand, offer peaceful vibes, empty beaches, and cooler temps. Think about your location, the vibe you’re going for, and even what time of day you feel most energized. This is your day! You get to set the tone and the timeline!

How Many People Should You Invite to Your Elopement?

The best part about planning an elopement is that you get to choose exactly who’s there, or not there at all! When couples ask me how to plan an elopement, this is one of the first questions I encourage them to think through. Do you want it to be just the two of you, fully focused on each other with no distractions? Or would it feel more special to have a few of your closest people standing by your side as you say your vows? There’s no right or wrong answer—it’s all about what feels meaningful to you. Some couples eloping in Hawaii opt for a private, oceanside ceremony, while others bring their parents, siblings, or best friends to turn it into a full-on adventure with their favorite people. Overall, just make sure the size reflects your vision and helps you stay present for every moment.

How to Choose Your Elopement Location

Now for the fun part: Where do you want to elope?! When it comes to choosing your dream backdrop, the options are endless, and that’s what makes eloping so magical. Are you dreaming of a lush, tropical Hawaii elopement with palm trees and ocean views? Or maybe you’re picturing mountaintop vows, desert cliffs, or a cozy forest clearing just for the two of you. Your ceremony can happen literally anywhere. No ballroom or traditional venue required. As you start narrowing down where to elope, think about what feels most true to your love. Do you want to hike, surf, or just soak up the sunset after your ceremony? Your location sets the entire vibe for your day, so whether you’re craving adventure or something more laid-back, I’ve got elopement destination ideas (and local insights if you’re thinking Hawaii!) to help you find your perfect spot.

Making Your Elopement Special with Personal Touches

Making your elopement truly special is all about infusing the day with your unique story and personality. When couples ask me how to make your elopement special, I always say it’s the little details that turn a simple ceremony into an unforgettable celebration. Whether it’s writing your own heartfelt vows, incorporating meaningful rituals, or choosing a location that reflects your journey together, these personalized elopement ideas bring so much magic to your day. Adding unique touches like custom floral arrangements, a favorite song played live, or even a surprise treat can elevate the experience and make your elopement feel completely one-of-a-kind. And if you’re planning a Hawaii elopement, local traditions and natural beauty offer endless inspiration to make your ceremony extra meaningful and memorable.

Ready to Start Planning Your Hawaii Elopement?

If you’re feeling excited (and maybe a little overwhelmed) about planning your dream elopement, you’re not alone! I’m here to help every step of the way. As a Hawaii elopement photographer who’s obsessed with all things intentional, vibrant, and love-filled, it’s truly my passion to capture these once-in-a-lifetime moments. If you’re just beginning to explore how to plan your Hawaii elopement, I’d love for you to check out my other helpful blogs full of elopement planning tips, real couple stories, and beautiful location inspiration. You can also head over to my travel page, about me, or contact page to start dreaming up your own unforgettable day. Let’s make something magic together! Chat soon!

Cassie Beth Photo | Hawaii Elopement Photographer

Featured Hawaii Elopement Vendors

Venue | Po’olenalena Beach & Makena Cove

Getting Ready Space | Wailea Beach Villas

Dress | Grace Loves Lace

Ring | Brilliant Earth Nolan

Officiant | Kirk Friesen

Florist | Kihei-Wailea Flowers by Cora

Cake | Safeway

Suit | Elly’s Formal Wear

Brides Shoes | Chinese Laundry

Grooms Shoes | Rothy’s